Coaching That Transforms Reflection
Into Real World Growth

Vestige Personal Coaching helps people slow down, listen deeply to themselves, and rediscover what truly matters. Vestige blends curiosity, encouragement, and compassion to help individuals, parents, and organizations navigate transitions and align their choices with purpose and legacy.
Grounded in evidence-based training from Biola University and the Martha Beck Wayfinder program, Vestige Personal Coaching offers a reflective, values-driven approach that fosters authenticity, connection, and sustainable growth — inviting clients to build a life defined not by perfection, but by presence and courage.


What I Do:

Individualized 1-on-1 Coaching
Coaching begins with the belief that everything you need is already within you. Together, we’ll uncover what truly matters so you can create lasting, meaningful change through honest reflection and intentional growth.
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Workplace Team Support
Healthy teams don’t just work together — they connect through authenticity, trust, and shared purpose. I help organizations strengthen communication, collaboration, and accountability to build more aligned, energized, and purpose-driven workplaces.
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College Transition Companion
The transition to college can be both exciting and overwhelming, and coaching offers calm, clarity, and confidence through it all. I help students and parents build identity, independence, and resilience so they can thrive through change — turning exploration into empowerment.
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Stay At Home Parent Whisperer
Parenting from home is a demanding and often overlooked form of leadership. I help stay-at-home parents rediscover purpose, confidence, and balance by redefining success and honoring both their giving and their growth.
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Real change isn’t about
becoming someone else;
it’s about remembering
who you are.
FAQs
What exactly is personal coaching?
Coaching is a guided conversation designed to help you gain clarity, confidence, and momentum in the areas that matter most to you. It’s not therapy or advice-giving — it’s a partnership that helps you uncover your own insights and move toward meaningful change.
How is coaching with VPC different?
My approach is deeply personal and rooted in reflection. I combine professional training with real-life experience — creating space that feels both safe and challenging. Together, we slow down, explore your story, and turn awareness into purposeful action that aligns with who you truly are.
Who do you typically work with?
I work with individuals navigating change — from professionals seeking clarity and balance, to stay-at-home parents rediscovering identity, to young adults transitioning into independence. Whether you’re recalibrating life, leadership, or purpose, coaching meets you right where you are.
What happens in a coaching session?
Each session is a focused, conversational space. We’ll explore what’s on your mind, identify patterns, and clarify next steps. Sometimes it’s reflective, sometimes it’s practical — but always centered on helping you see more clearly and act more intentionally.
How long does a coaching session usually last?
Most often, Clients will opt for a 55 Minute session, but I also offer 25 minute sessions if you have limited time. The most common rhythm to meet is every two weeks.
Do you offer virtual or in-person sessions?
Most coaching happens virtually via Zoom or the phone, allowing flexibility and privacy wherever you are. For local clients, I occasionally offer in-person sessions if my schedule permits. I prefer a walk and talk if you’re up for that.
How do I know if coaching is right for me?
If you feel stuck, curious, or ready for something to shift — coaching can help. You don’t need to have everything figured out; you just need a willingness to reflect, grow, and take an honest look at what’s next.
How do I get started?
It begins with a free discovery call — a no-pressure conversation to explore what you’re hoping for and see if we’re a good fit. From there, we’ll map out a personalized coaching plan that aligns with your goals and rhythm of life.
Let The Next Chapter of Your
Journey Begin.
Watch the Intro Video Below To Hear How I Might Help.
Coaching isn’t just something I do — it’s something I live. My journey has been shaped by curiosity, reflection, and a desire to help others uncover who they are and what truly matters. In this short video, I share a bit about my story, the heart behind Vestige Personal Coaching, and why I believe meaningful change begins with slowing down and listening deeply.

What Folks Are Saying About VPC
Gain Clarity
“Coaching with Tom felt like hanging out with a friend…but one who asked very good questions to help me discover my own needs and desires and gain clarity on my next steps. His warm, engaging approach made the coaching experience feel natural and unforced. Highly recommend!”
Amanda B.
Ontario , QC
Experience Growth
”Tom is a natural guide who celebrates people. From our sessions, I’ve been able to experience growth in both my personal and professional lives. His ability to foster an atmosphere of safety and excitement to explore the experiences of life is unmatched.”
Chris H.
Winter Park, FL
Tipping Point
“Tom’s guidance was a turning point in my career. I’ve achieved goals that seemed unreachable before our sessions.”
Nate W.
Columbus, OH

“I don’t know where we are going but I know exactly how to get there”
– Renias Mhlongo
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